A 20-Year-Old Was 'Guilt-Tripped' By Her Mom To Co-Sign One Car And Secretly Signed Her Onto Another. 'Both Cars Have Been Repossessed'

A strong credit score can take years to build and months to destroy. For one young woman, the damage started at 20 years old, when she says her mother “guilt-tripped” her into co-signing a car loan.

By 26, she was staring at roughly $20,000 in debt tied to two repossessed vehicles and trying to figure out how to move forward with her new husband.

A Costly Family Decision

The caller, Arly, shared her story on “The Ramsey Show” with hosts Jade Warshaw and George Kamel. She said that at 20 or 21, she had an 800 credit score. Then her mom pressured her to co-sign for a car.

“She guilt-tripped me into doing all of that,” Arly said.

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When Kamel pushed back and told her she was already a grown woman at the time, she responded that there was a cultural pressure at play. “Like ‘I’ve done so much for you. I need you to do this for me,'” Kamel interjected. “And you just went, ‘Okay, fine.'” Arly said that’s exactly what happened.

A year later, she thought she was helping refinance that same vehicle. Instead, she says she was unknowingly tied to a second car loan. “They told me it was a refinance,” she said. Months later, after late payment notices started arriving, she discovered she was also connected to another vehicle.

“Both cars have been repossessed,” she said.

After the vehicles were auctioned off, she was left with deficiency balances of about $10,000 on one car and $8,000 on the other. On top of that, she took out a $2,000 personal loan at her mother's urging.

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Altogether, around $20,000 in debt was tied to decisions she made in her early 20s.

Warshaw acknowledged the complicated dynamic. “There is an imbalance of power there when you’re 18, 21 years old and a parent is saying you need to do this,” she said.

Still, Kamel made it clear that creditors do not care about the backstory. “You just need to act like this is debt I took on and I got to clean the mess up,” he said.

The hosts advised Arly to attempt to settle the repossession balances for 40% to 50% of what is owed, using lump-sum payments. “Anytime you’re going to settle a debt, you’ve got to have the cash in hand ready,” Warshaw said, stressing the importance of getting agreements in writing.

They also urged her to freeze her credit and pull all three credit reports to make sure no additional accounts had been opened in her name.

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Marriage, Money And Moving Forward

Arly recently got married and said she hesitated to involve her husband in fixing the problem. “I don’t want him to take on the burden,” she said.

Warshaw pushed back gently. “If the tables were turned, would you be willing to help him?” she asked.

“Of course,” Arly replied.

“As long as you’re not asking more of someone than you would want asked of yourself, then I think it’s okay,” Warshaw said, adding that marriage means tackling problems as a team.

Beyond the immediate debt, the deeper lesson was about boundaries. “No more debt, no more co-signing,” Warshaw said. “Never again is really the line in the sand that you need to draw.”

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Arly's situation isn’t uncommon. Family pressure, cultural expectations and emotional guilt can result in costly decisions. But as the hosts emphasized, the path forward starts with ownership, teamwork and firm financial boundaries.

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